Thursday, 5 February 2015

Skiing, Sadness & Smiles - 2015

My number one new year’s resolution was to prioritise travel so it only felt appropriate to start 2015 on foreign soil. Therefore, January  1st this year was spent journeying across the continent along with my good friend Jorge and the worst hangover I've ever endured. Resisting the temptation to climb into J’s board-bag and sleep, we caught a tube, train and plane, eventually landing in Milan a few hours later.  
As we arrived late that evening, we spent one night at my dad’s house on the lake before heading off to Bormio, one of Italy’s best ski resorts. Still feeling the effects of new year I slept most of the journey, awaking to find myself completely surrounded by the stunning Italian alps. There was not a cloud in the sky and the mountains were glistening green in the sunshine. Yes green, not white. The lack of snow was instantly obvious but nevertheless we could just about make out a few dozen black dots zigzagging their way down the mountainside. 
Wasting no time, we dropped our suitcases at the apartment and set off to join them. My excitement gradually turned to anxiety, however, as we approached the bottom and I realised I could barely remember the last time I’d skied, let alone how to actually do it. ‘Please don’t be shit’, says Jorge who just so happens to be sick at snowboarding, ‘it will be painful for me.’ Oh good, no pressure then.
To make matters worse, my dad and Stefy decided to sit out the first day and so I was left to the mercy (or non-mercy) of Jorge and his snowboard which unintentionally (supposedly) led us down the World Cup run within our first hour. With no other option, I just launched myself downwards giving little thought to technique or what might happen if I skied off a cliff edge. It was really fun but I was still thankful for the distraction of a load of drunk Italians dancing on tables at a bar halfway down. We quickly grabbed ourselves a round of drinks and joined in with their terrible singing for a dozen or so European songs which I’m ashamed to admit I know.  
Alcohol appeared to improve my skiing, or at least my confidence, and before we knew it we were back at the ski shop where I'd somehow become some sort of celebrity. For reasons we never worked out (certainly not my ski skills) every member of staff seemed to know me by name and continued to fuss over us for the entire week. We didn’t complain.
The following day, all four of us set off for the top together but my dad and Stefy soon gave up on the grounds that it was far too icy. Not having the luxury of living an hour from the Alps all year around, however, Jorge and I soldiered on. We got a good couple of hours in before stopping for lunch at a beautiful place midway down. With the mountains as our backdrop, we ate our way through two gigantic pizzas and I taught Jorge his first Italian phrase of the week: ‘vino bianco’.
Wine became a prominent theme for the remainder of the afternoon and once we finally reached the bottom, I was nothing short of drunk. I can only assume Jorge felt the same as he face-planted twice and fell asleep as soon as we stepped through the apartment door. Fortunately we both perked up in time for dinner but not before I smashed him at poker which resulted in a free lunch, the loan of his gloves, a neck massage and a very angry Jorge. Win, win, win.  
Our penultimate day in Bormio, Dad and Stefy joined us again, this time long enough to give me some actual lessons. I really felt like I was just getting the hang of it when we hit a particularly icy patch and I stacked it in the most spectacular fashion. Crackkk. Where my skis should probably have popped off, my knee instead popped out and I ended up flat on my back with my head facing downwards and my legs sticking up in all kinds of directions.
Within seconds, the other three had skied over to me with their phones in hand ready to document this epic fail. However, soon realising my initial laughter had turned to tears, it was time for a rescue mission. I couldn’t ski, or even really stand up, but there was zero chance of me getting on one of those bloody snow stretchers so instead I slid down one-footed to the nearest stop. Along with lunch and a litre of wine, we ordered a big bag of ice to stop the swelling of my stupid knee.
Luckily we’d planned to take the afternoon off skiing anyway to visit one of Bormio’s famous thermal baths. By far the best is the authentic Roman Spa a little way out of the centre but they were sadly booked up for the entire week and so we had to settle for one in the heart of town. Whilst the indoor pools reminded me a little too much of Coral Reef, it had a lovely outdoor area which was the perfect setting to watch the sunset behind the mountain. Even so, my highlight was probably meeting our new Italian friend in the sauna who will forever remain in my contact list as ‘Fat Sauna Man’ (‘Whatsapp??’)
That evening we were able to explore Bormio itself which is a beautiful town with cobbled roads and quaint little squares. Christmas already seemed an age away but the pine trees and fairy lights strung throughout the streets really brought it back.
Tuesday, I woke up to some tragic news from home so it was all a bit of a blur from there. Not wanting to sit around in my thoughts all day, I attempted to ski but the combination of my bad knee and teary eyes didn’t make for brilliant skiing. We called it a day pretty early and drove back to the lake in time to book a table at Fabio's for dinner. Nothing could have stopped me from crying that day but the world's best pizza gave it a really good go.
Exhaustion and emotion hit me straight on and whereas the previous day, I’d been longing to be at home with my girlfriends who were sharing my grief, I was suddenly very thankful to be right there on Lake Como; the most calming place on earth.
Mid-morning, Jorge and I dragged our old canoe boat down to the water and paddled all the way into the next village, stopping only when we reached the James Bond Villa. Taking advantage of the winter and nobody being around, we docked up and unpacked our picnic onto their private pier for lunch. It was incredibly peaceful – the lake never lets me down.  
After a second lunch (eating our feelings) back at the house, we took the bikes out to explore the next village on the opposite side. Though we intended to cycle the regular route to the old castle, at some point I took us down a very wrong turn and we found ourselves high up in the mountain, unable to make our way back down to the road. Fortunately, any route along Lake Como is the scenic route and it was beautiful regardless.
On our final full day of the holiday, we decided to venture to St Moritz where we’d heard whispers of real snow. Jorge drove most of the way so I was able to sit back, relax and admire the picturesque views on either side. Speeding through the border, we were soon in Switzerland and whilst we did indeed find snow, we paid the price for it! Everything there from the ski pass, to the soup dishes, were double the price of Bormio and so we held back on the wine and just made the most of a full day skiing.
The wine re-commenced back on the lake though as we went to Fabio’s for the second time in three days. As it was our last night I asked for a special favour from the chef (Fabio), ordering the Gnocchi Caruso which is no longer on the menu but really should be. There has to be some benefits to being my dad’s daughter!
Packing the next morning was pretty surreal. I’d been so keen to get home earlier that week but now I was dreading it. Thousands of miles away I’d only really half faced the reality of Hatti’s death and returning to London would make it hit all over again, even harder. After an emotional lunch at Fabio’s (why break tradition?) we returned to the house, stripped down into our swimwear and plunged ourselves into the lake in literally arctic conditions. I have no explanation for why; it just felt like the right thing to do.
With only a few hours left before our flight, there was still one place I wanted Jorge to see so we took off on a walk up into the mountains. A little while later, we arrived at our land or ‘campo’ as my dad calls it. Aside from an incredible view, I’m never too sure exactly what I’ll find up there but this time we were met by a tiny kitten, rabbits, chickens and two sheep. Whilst the cute little kitten clawed at our ankles for attention, Jorge was far more interested in the two massive sheep, soon naming them as his good friends Richard and Judy despite them both being female and pregnant.
As we started our descent the sun began to set, turning the entire sky pink as it had been every evening since my beautiful friend passed.
Though the second half of the week was undeniably tough, Lake Como is always a pleasure and both Bormio and St Moritz were wonderful too. More than anything, I was so grateful to have had Jorge, my dad and Stefy out there with me, as well as Hatti herself who lives on continuously in my thoughts.
Though Italy will now always remind me of Hats, that’s not a bad thing. As her boyfriend so rightfully said, ‘the things that remind me of you now and upset me will soon remind me of you and make me smile.’ I look forward to that day, as I’m sure you do too up there in the sky. Though we can’t guarantee dimples to match yours, we’ll be smiling again for you soon - I absolutely promise <3









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